The Disconnect

A few lines was all it took.

It was a “random” preview of an upcoming book written by a young man with a passionate hunger for the presence of God. I don’t know what the book is about as a whole. And I have no idea of its merit as a whole (although I suspect there is much richness inside). What I do know is this …

After just a few lines of raw, honest emotion about his own imperfect pursuit of a perfect God …

I was a mess.

I was a mess, because instantly I saw the disconnect in my own supposedly wholehearted pursuit of God.

And sometimes the truth is painful.

The truth is …

Though I love him more than ever~
Sometimes my devotion is pathetically weak and fickle
Though I’ve had times of lingering his presence that I never wanted to end~
Sometimes I don’t give him the time of day
Though he’s invited me into deeper depths and higher heights of his love~
Sometimes I’m shocked by how ridiculously shallow my own love can be
Though I’ve come to know him in new and wonderful ways~
Sometimes I realize I scarcely know him at all
Though I’ve grown secure and strong in my identity in him~
Sometimes I still don’t look, love, or act much like him …
At all.

And I’m not okay with that. I’m not satisfied with that. I’m not going to dismiss it or excuse it away. I’m not going to “grace, grace” my way out of my deficiencies.

Instead, I’m going to “press on to lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus laid hold of me.”

Yes, Jesus loves me just the way I am. There is no condemnation–not now, not ever. All of that was dealt with on Calvary. But this isn’t about feeling “unworthy” or condemned …

This is about being provoked.

And that’s a good thing. (Really, it is!)

Sadly, the faith and devotion of a great many self-professed Christians in the western world is only about an inch or two deep. So if, by chance, you happen to have developed faith that is perhaps an inch or so deeper, you can seem downright radical in comparison. It all depends on where you set the bar.

But what if Jesus is the bar? What if it’s his relationship with the Father that sets the standard? If so, we’re in trouble, because there was NOdisconnect in his relationship with the Father …


They were (and forever will be) one.

That’s the goal. That’s the ideal. That’s what we press on to lay hold of …

And I have a long way to go.

Honestly, it wasn’t just a snippet from a book that pierced my heart–the Holy Spirit has been provoking me (quite regularly, I might add!). And I’ve been listening. I’ve been taking inventory. I’ve been examining my heart. I’ve been sensing a shift and a stirring–along with a growing certainty that he is about to take me up on some of the prayers I’ve prayed for a long, long time.

That’s exciting … and it’s also slightly terrifying.

For me, the past several years have been quiet–an extended time of transition, restoration, and desperately needed rest. I know that time is finally over. I can’t tell you why I know–I just know. The season has changed.

And I don’t want to miss a single thinghe’s doing–right now. I don’t want to settle. I don’t want to back down. I want to be ready whenever, however, and wherever he says to “go.”

That means I need to eliminate more of the inconsistencies between what I say I believe and what my life actually demonstrates I believe. I need to close the disconnect.

Again, to be clear, there is no disconnect in my access to his presence–or his heart. That gap was bridged–forever–at the cross. My relationship with him is not at issue.

But the impact of my life is very much at issue. So is the impact of yours.

Think of the lives that will be touched — healed –freed — restored — when I — when you — when we — move in true harmony with his Spirit.

And the ones that won’t be touched … if we don’t.

I don’t know about you, but no matter how far I have to go, I want to press in. I want to learn. I want to grow. I’m saying yes (again and again and again). I want to be more like him.

But even more than being like him–I want to be one with him. Because when you’re one …

There’s no disconnect.

8 thoughts on “The Disconnect

  1. Oh, that is soooo good! The biggest challenge for me has been realizing that the real disconnect is between my ears! I, too, have been frustrated and provoked by the difference between what I believe and my actual experience. But that’s a healthy thing, I believe. 🙂


    1. I totally agree that it is a healthy thing! Otherwise it seems we are far too willing to settle for far too little. And BTW, your “Confessions of an Unbelieving Believer” post was another of those prods the Holy Spirit has used lately to stir my heart again to press in and on.Thanks 🙂 God bless!


  2. Thanks for being honest about your struggles in wanting to know our Lord, Cindy. So grateful the desire He put within us is stirred up and provoked again and again. The One pursuing lover of our soul who never gives up on His Beloved. Hugs!


    1. Oh I am so, so glad He never ever gives up on us! Also so incredibly grateful that He never fails to pursue me even when I am often so very weak in my pursuit of Him.I love how He loves us 🙂 Blessings and hugs to you too my friend!


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